Guest Post: review of Rachael Chadwick’s 60 Postcards

Today I am posting a guest blog from one of my nearest and dearest.  Warning…  despite being a book review, these words are from the heart. x

There is much I can relate to in Rachael Chadwick’s 60 Postcards – that’s probably why Best Friend cautiously suggested that I review this book.   Eleven years ago I too lost my dear mum to cancer, all too young, with a loving family of three daughters, a brand new grandson and a wonderful husband all struggling to come to terms with the finality, injustice and quite simply overwhelming sadness of the loss.    Serendipity is a concept that threads through the book, so it was no surprise that I first settled down to read it on Mother’s Day.   

UnknownA little like becoming a mother for the first time, losing a parent unexpectedly gives you membership to a club that you never knew existed, or thought you’d be part of, but does give you a powerful solidarity on which to lean.  I was intrigued to see how this young woman had used her tragic and sudden loss to not only celebrate her mother’s life but help her to express her grief via a blog, and now via this book.  Consequently it has led her to her give up her job and take the 60 Postcard campaign further and wider meeting like-minded souls and unlikely pen-pals along the way.    One of the strongest themes in the book was the reviving role of family and friendship – both new and old.   I also recognised many of her well-observed reactions by friends and acquaintances on hearing the tragic news: the Suffer Police, the Disbelievers and the Tilters.   

Whilst I can’t but applaud Rachael, I did struggle with her writing at times and as a result I am saddened not to be able to champion the book and its sentiment more.   I am not a fan of the asides or exclamation marks and in my opinion, the narrative could have been pacier.   Having said that, it was only when I reached the final chapter that I felt that the account revealed a more candid expression of her regrettable reality.   She speaks of the conversation she had with her Mum a few days before she passed away that allowed them to “acknowledge out loud, for the first and final time that we were going to lose each other forever.”   For me this honesty is what the mother/daughter relationship is all about – even if it breaks an unwritten family rule not to talk about the future.  I remember the same difficult and emotion-filled conversation I had with my mum more than eleven years ago and as I read Rachael’s final chapter, I too wanted to go tell everyone quite how fantastic my mother was, how much I miss her and still feel her guiding me every day.

60 Postcards: The Inspirational Story of a Young Woman’s Journey to Celebrate Her Mother, One Postcard at a Time is out now.

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Village England. A real life handbag.

Last month I met Julia Dobson, one of the 2 founders of new handbag brand Village England for a coffee and a bit of a bag-natter.  Ex-LVMH, Dobson and her business partner Eddie Knevett who happens to have been head of accessories at House of Fraser are more than equipped to bring us – what is – the latest in Brit bags.

Julia Dobson and I talk handbags

Julia Dobson and I talk handbags

Digging deep, I wanted to know why we need more bag choice on our high street and how Village England planned to attract our attention in this already crowded market.

Here is my interview with Julia:

Which handbag did you carry before you launched Village England? As I’ve worked for handbag brands for years, I have been obliged to carry the brand I work for!  So, I carried CELINE when I worked there, Bally when I worked for them…

And which Village England bag is your go-to bag?  I carried the Polperro from launch until our AW14 samples arrived, but now I’m a Beamish girl.  I love the super soft leather, the squishy pockets on the front to carry all those things you need to access fast (Oyster Card, phone, pen, notepad) and of course the cross body strap for when I need to hold someone’s hand crossing the road…

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I admire her Aysgarth

What do YOU carry in your bag?  My life.  Without fail my phone, house keys and Village England purse (in yellow, since you ask).   Depending on where I am going my laptop and Smythson note book (gift from my last paid job), 3 or 4 pens and a lip gloss.  There has been more than one occasion when I have reached in my bag to pull out something for a meeting and have found a My Little Pony (with rainbow hair – a Christmas gift from my 4 year old son).  He sneaks it into my bag so I would have something to play with at work…  Love that boy.

What’s your ambition for Village England?  We set out to make women happy – make a great product that looks great and works within a real life.  Pockets that are the right height to use when they are on your shoulder and straps that work.  And then make sure we have the right attention to the details that you won’t notice unless they are NOT there – like a gorgeous lining that feels nice when you put your hand into the bag and feet on the bottom of the bag.  We engrave our studs with one of the original drawings Eddie did of a cottage, just because we think the details are important.

Who or what inspires you?  At the moment I am being completely inspired by a bunch of older women who are really teaching me a thing or two about cutting yourself some slack and enjoying the moment.  I think as women we seems to be hard wired to take on so much, to be perfect in every aspect of life, to feel guilty about everything, mothering too much, not being there enough, not being at work enough, not cleaning the house enough, not seeing our friends enough.  I’m currently working on just appreciating what I have, which is lovely, even if the kitchen floor really could use a mop.

a Newlyn in vibrant routemaster red £250

a Newlyn in vibrant routemaster red £250

What makes you really happy?  The sound of the boys laughing in the next room; a cup of tea in the sunshine on our deck, a quiet glass of wine with Mr Dobson once the boys are in bed.  Seeing one of our bags on someone on the tube – that’s probably the most exciting thing.

Is fashion for the faint-hearted?  Broadly there are two types of people who work in fashion – those for whom most of their self esteem is derived from the brand they work for and those that just work in an industry that sell a product and a derivative of the lifestyle that is used to communicate that.  Frankly there is a huge amount of competition in this industry, so you really need to have a great product if you want to have any chance of survival.  The major fear factor comes from the investment required: if you want to work with the best manufacturers, you have to sign up to some very big production runs, which are not cheap!

who would you LOVE to carry one of your bags – and which one?  So many amazing women I admire, but I don’t think we’re particularly a celebrity brand.  So I love it whenever I see a REAL woman carrying our bags, on the school run, heading home from work, heading out for a drink.

I persuaded some 'green fly' to model the range of Village England bags!

I persuaded some ‘green fly’ to model the range of Village England bags!

Who would you enjoy being stuck in a lift with?  A lift repair man.  Why a lift?  Can’t I be stuck in the Maldives instead?  Why have I never been to the Maldives?  And why does the return flight from a holiday NEVER get cancelled?

What makes Village England different from its competitors?  We care.  We really care.  We want to make an amazing bag (based on all our experience working for luxury brands) for a real world price. That’s our starting position

What can we look forward in the future?  Autumn /Winter 2014 will soon be upon us, which of course will include my favourite Beamish (you’ll see it in House of Fraser and Anthropologie amongst others)

Tell us a handbag secret…  Way back when… Eddie (my co-Founder and great friend) is the cause of one of the biggest hit bags a few seasons ago.  When on a buying appointment for House of Fraser in a certain brand’s showroom, he found a bag he rather liked in the corner, but the bag had been edited out of the collection and was not for sale.   Of course, if you have the buying power of House of Fraser you can get things back in to a collection if you’re prepared to back it with an order.  That bag was eventually launched with the name “Roxanne”, and provided him (and Mulberry) with some rather healthy sales.

You may have seen me out and about with my stunningly vibrant Cranleigh. Curiously many observers and admirers have glanced at my orange friend commenting that they think they have seen it on Bond St.  And yet the price is dramatically different. (80% of Village England bags retail at less than £300.) Based on the quality of leather, the diverse colours and the everyday wearablity, I’d advise you to check out Village England’s bags as Julia’s right – they are perfect for our very real lives…

Village England bags can be purchased online or in House of Fraser, Jarrolds (Norwich), Elys of Wimbledon, Fenwick Brent Cross, Kate Kuba and Anthropologie from next season.

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memo to marketing team at Olympus

MEMORANDUM

TO: the marketing team at Olympus               

FROM: the photographic arm of Life of Yablon     

DATE:  today

SUBJECT:  your loan (to me) of an Olympus PEN M.ZUIKO Digital 45mm f1.8 lens           

PRIORITY:  highest & sharpest (with lovely blurry background)

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As discussed, I have spent the last month reviewing the above mentioned lens.  And I feel we need to discuss.  Urgently.

A little recap first: over the last few weeks, I have been in and out of various camera retailers lusting after a variety of Olympus lens which are compatible with my Panasonic Lumix GF6.  And then I made my decision and purchased the Olympus PEN 17mm f2.8 pancake lens based not only on its compactness but also because it takes such a brilliant wide angle and is fantastic for all the food reviewing I do.  Even housed in my retro camera case, it fits easily into my handbag and accompanies me most days as I run around London.  

the one that got away - shot by the pancake...

the one that got away – shot by the pancake…

However – the one that got away, the one I ditched, THAT other lens – was delivered last month by my reliable postie.  It’s outstanding image quality hit me immediately.  Of course it’s not as small as my pancake purchase but it IS lightweight and pretty compact for its ultra?bright 1:1.8 large aperture.

I suppose it’s the eye-catching depth of field blur which initally made me really weak at the knees. But then – a few days later – it became a light-love. The bright 1:1.8 aperture combined with some really snappy auto-focus had me falling deeper and deeper.

this lens captures the details (exhaustion after a day's skiing) and blurs the rest

this lens captures the details (exhaustion after a day’s skiing) and blurs the rest

Of course it looks great too and I have spent the last month switching between both lens and enjoying the different style of photo results.

an Austrian nut-eating sheep (more of which in later post)

an Austrian nut-eating sheep (more of which in later post)

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excuse me, waiter, there's a  helicopter in my Spag Bol!

excuse me, waiter, there’s a helicopter in my Spag Bol!

The real result is that I can’t now be separated from this new love of mine.  We were meant to be together.  I suppose you’d better let me know how much I owe you.  As I mentioned, it’s pretty (and) urgent.

in LOVE with my new (loaned) lens

in LOVE with my new (loaned) lens

 I was loaned a M.ZUIKO DIGITAL 45mm 1:1.8 lens by Olympus which retails at £228

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‘Do you ski’ He asked, suggestively

IMG_3815We met at a crowded party. A few of the crowd had had at least one too many and the DJ was doing his thing at full pelt. So, I must admit that much of our conversation (back in November 1996) is hazy. But I do remember that one of His first questions (before asking for my number) was: Do you ski?

And, today, as He and I covered some pretty serious ground in the Austrian alps, I wondered what would have been if I had answered negatively to his question. But, of course, I didn’t and for more reasons that this, I’m a keen downhiller.

Because skiing makes me feel FREE. For hours at a time I can forget about everything else. The Smalls, snaking down the blue runs, are someone else’s responsibility. The sun is shining and the sky is blue. And He and I could easily be the 20 somethings we once were.

Somehow I don’t feel like a mum or a wife or even anyone with a deadline. And this is one of the main reasons I would invest in the Smalls’ ski-skills. Just in case one day they too need to feel free.IMG_4033this post originally appeared in my Mum About Town column in The Lady online.

 

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