One day in Wilderness

wilderness 2014The idea came to me a few months ago…   just how brilliant would a trip day to Wilderness Festival be…  Cornbury Park, Oxfordshire, is so accessible from Paddington Bear’s station and all those party tent people enjoying a little music, art and eating against this stunning backdrop would make for a perfect photography field trip expedition. I just needed to convince someone to join me in my (somewhat brief) Wilderness madness.

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Julia Rebaudo was always going to be a prime target. She lives with a camera (or 2) around her neck and never seems to refuse any slightly leftfield idea (bad pun sorry!). If you’re not yet a regular reader of her stunning blog, Stylonylon, you’d better hop over and get a fix. Her photography and lifeSTYLE is beyond stunning and her blog is already a favourite with those who know their super skinnies from their wide-legged culottes.

wilderness 2014Anyway, back to last Thursday’s excursion. Knomo – the elegant technology bag peeps – got wind of my plan and immediately sent over a stunning Montague backpack in electric blue so that my (now numerous) lens wouldn’t fall in the mud nor would I break my back. So, I packed all a city girl could ever need for day at the music/art/foodie festival (now in its 4th year) and stepped onto that train for some country air and misplaced boho beauties.

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Time was always going to be against us but somehow it literally ran away with us. The sun was hot and with a tick-list of shots we needed to get as well as festival-ers to meet, there was only time for a bottle of water and a hot dog – instead of the al fresco dinner and relaxing massage we had planned.wilderness 2014

wilderness 2014There was time for a little gold-leaf face painting though with Maddy and her team at It’s In Your Dreams. Julia’s fluttery feather lashes were quite something and I rather adored having one semi-precious cheekbone.

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When the time came, I started to work down the list of local taxi numbers I had, ever so efficiently, printed off. Phone reception was as patchy as you might imagine and, even when I did manage to establish a ringing tone, the taxi HQs weren’t picking up. I tried not to panic. One of the officials roaming around this scenic setting was bound to be able to radio one of the front gates and organise a taxi for us.

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How wrong I was. None of them even seemed to know WHERE the gates were. The organisers’ map was a little misleading plus impossible to read in font size 6. So, once we had questioned half a dozen dressed in neon vests, Julia braced herself to warn me that we might just be sleeping the night, sans tent under the stars…

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I strongly disagreed. While I realised we couldn’t make the train station on foot (once we’d broken out) in less than 90 minutes, I was determined not to give up and broke into a full on strut away from the main stage.

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Julia of Stylonylon blog being shot for this year's Wilderness film - in a dress by Free People

Julia of Stylonylon blog being shot for this year’s Wilderness film – in a dress by Free People

A break in the fence and an old banger on the road prompted me to leap in front of it with my biggest begging face.

‘Hello! Are you heading out of Wilderness? Do you know which direction is the exit? Oh and PLEASE could we jump in???!!!

Our predicament obviously amused the driver (who would ever leave a festival so soon after it had kicked off?) and with a quick glance at the baby seat (therefore NOT a complete nutcase…), we hopped in. Another lost festival footman asked if he too could hitch a lift.

From the back he asked the driver: Are you the Meat Ball Man? To which our driver retorted: Yup. You’re the tail man, aren’t you?

Now we had seen/heard it all. As it turns out, our driver was Jez Felwick of The Bowler  – the man responsible for providing this country with award-winning gourmet meat balls sold from his van at various hip events as well as any number of meat ball recipes from his new cookbook.

wilderness 2014The tail man I never understood but we made our train and laid our pretty (exhausted) heads on real pillows rather than bails of hay.

The 4-day Wilderness Festival was 7-10th August this year.

The photos of me are shot by the talented @stylonylon.

For more info on Knomo’s Montague backpack (and Knomad) click here.

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Knomo Montague and Knomad loaded for Wilderness

My trip to Wilderness needed careful packing. A day trip always does, I find. Firstly, the bag can’t be too big. That might look precious.

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The bright sunshine meant I could rule out umbrella, wellingtons, wellie socks, raincoat etc…

… but what about suncream, an evening chill and ALL THOSE LENS…

A handbag in a field wouldn’t work. At all.

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I knew just the people for the job. Knomo makes the best laptop bags and stunning carriers for the technology we can’t live without. (You might have read my post last year about their Scala – in fact I now rarely travel without it) The Knomo Montague was sent my direction and I was sold.

Knomo Montague at Wilderness

Knomo Montague at Wilderness

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Knomo’s Knomad

 

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Add in my trusty leather sandals, Ray-Bans and a straw trilby, I was off.

Except that one of my main fears is a battery-drained phone. In marched the ridiculously efficient (brand new) Knomad. My worries were over.

To read more about my adventures at Wilderness, click here.

All photos of me shot by @stylonylon

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who’s judging who?

judging mums

Small and I were getting dry after swimming at our local pool this morning and I heard a little boy ask his mum for help with his laces. 

Can’t you see how busy I am?’ she barked at her son, balancing a MacBook pro on her lap while simultaneously punching numbers into her calculator. 

She was clearly stressed. And every bit of me wanted to jump over the bench and help the boy tie his laces. He didn’t look in the least bit surprised by his mother’s reaction to his plea for help. But there I was…judging. 

Right there and then I was judging that poor woman when she could have easily been on a hateful deadline with an even shoutier boss. 

There’s something in the air at the moment as I feel everyone is judging each other. Call me over-sensitive or just plain hormonal but whether it’s a comment from a friend, a glance from a stranger or simply an untimely-overheard conversation, I feel we’re ALL being judged more than ever. 

It could be over something as small as the snacks we allow our kids to eat or as large as whether we have a career or are full-time mums and also seems to stretch to what/if we smoke or drink or who has had NITS again… 

The bottom line is that all this judging and being judged is totally and utterly exhausting. So today I tried my best NOT to judge that mother. Who knows what was happening on her laptop and whether she had shown her son a million times how to tie his own laces…keen for him to try a little harder for himself. 

And I now want you all to pass the non-judge message on –  so that we can break this chain of judging. I’m sure we’ve all got better things to do.

This article first appeared in my Mum About Town column in The Lady Magazine.

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deliberate underpacking

This summer we are doing quite a bit of travelling and I’ve made a concerted effort to pack light, light, light. It’s not that I don’t want to flex my muscles through the airports nor that I’m ultra efficient on my clothes choices but more that I want to see how easily we can live with less.

A type of packing social experiment.

Every item included has been through my strict vetting procedure.

And that includes my beauty choices.

beauty favourites for summer holiday

I have allowed myself 8 beauty specials for our American adventure.  From top left going clockwise: Environ Intensive Hydrating Oil Capsules, Environ RAD spray SPF 25, SWBasics Organic Lipbalm, Kiehl’s Silk Groom, Highlighting Concealer Brush by Terry, Colour Fix Cream Eyeshadow(liner) in Fard Fondant Regard by Terry, Deep Relax Balm by Aromatherapy Associates, Becca Beach Tint (for eyes, lips, cheeks), Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder.

Have a BEAUTIFUL holiday if you’re off too.

 

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