storytelling in monochrome…

…because that’s basically what I do when I’m out + about with my camera. Snatching stories from the outside world and bringing them into my world; my social feeds, my blog or just my camera roll.

Life of Yablon monochrome images

 

I’ve often wondered what it is about black and white photographs – how and why they seem to tell us so much more of the story.

Life of Yablon monochrome images

 

Life of Yablon monochrome images

Life of Yablon monochrome images

Life of Yablon monochrome images

 

Life of Yablon monochrome images

Life of Yablon monochrome images

Life of Yablon monochrome images

Life of Yablon monochrome images

It’s more than nostalgia. It’s the full on monochrome appeal which made me challenge myself this morning. I was walking to a meeting in Bayswater and made myself jump off the tube at the WRONG stop. 30 minutes walk on a gloomy grey day and my task was to capture 10 images which felt timeless and distraction free.

Life of Yablon monochrome images

it’s black and white’ I was told as a school girl • but in reality (of course) it isn’t • it’s all those shades of grey •

 

 

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birthday BADass

Growing up, I never ever understood why my mother didn’t like her birthday. AT. ALL. In fact, she positively willed it to pass as painlessly as possible. And, year after year, I thought she was a bit of a spoilsport and a birthday-sort-of-Scrooge.

But this year I totally GET IT.

I’m currently mid stream, drifting through those in-between years.   Never one to shy away from a properly large, arms-above-ahead, party-popper celebration, the flashing disco lights of my 40th are but a mere memory and, while I’m vowing to re-invent the party wheel in time for the big 45 … this year… BLEUGH is just about the sum of how I feel.

So, mix all of the above self-indulgent pitiful woes with a pinch of ‘who might I offend if I don’t invite’ anxiety plus a massive dose of head cold exhaustion, you’ll understand why last Thursday (44 years to the day post entering this age-obsessed world) I just wanted to crawl under the covers and sleep… and sleep…. and sleep.

Of course, I put a brave face on it,  birthday badging up my jumper and leaping forth to reveal myself as The Birthday Boss.

Besides, this was always meant to be a restaurant review as I KNOW you’ll love Lurra (a hell of a lot more than your next birthday). Scooped up by two of my closests, the three of us lunch partied at this new Basque grill on Seymour Place.

lurra restaurant

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sourdough with bone marrow.

(Maybe it’s my age) I always forget this street even exists. It’s that place of stillness which happens to lie between the tourist-mayhem of Marble Arch and the hectic chaos of Edgware Road. Yet another reason I love London; curiously remarkable as it unfolds.

courgette flower with cod brandada

courgette flower with cod brandada

Anyway we ate. REALLY well. And gulped pretty rosé too – while delighting in delicious gossip and silly, amusing tales that we never ever get around to sharing.

14 year Rubia Galena ‘Galician Blond’ Prime Rib, Grade 9. TO YOU + ME, AMAZING MEAT.

Of course there was a candle and a song too. I was having such a ball, I had even forgotten it was a birthday at all.

happy BADass day to me

happy day to me

But once back home, I rolled back into my big duvet and called it a day.

 

 

 

 

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those Jones-es

I just wonder if they think I’m a DREADFUL mum?’ a self-crucifying (yet highly successful) mother confessed to me earlier this week over a steaming cup of hot coffee. And she wasn’t referring to her children’s assessment of her parental skills either. This inherent fear of judgement was attributed to those other mums at the school gates. I quickly reassured her and moved on.

Do you think that they think that we are totally MAD?’ a friend called me to ask as I sprinted to catch a bus in the pouring rain. I honestly had no idea who or what she was talking about but pacified her all the same.

But what will THEY say if we book a holiday THERE?’ He asked me last last night. I was too tired to even respond, let alone question the logic.

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But, right here and now – after these three questions and so, so many more – I am realising that I (quite frankly) don’t give a damn what the next person thinks about any personal decisions I make in my life.   Anyone disapproving or querying or even daring to judge me is quite frankly irrelevant – as long as that decision works for me and us and them. Actually, it doesn’t even cross my mind to peer over the garden fence to see how and why others lead their lives.

So, am I in the minority while all the rest care about those ever-present Jones-es?  Of course it’s human nature to want to be liked and accepted but a burning need to ‘fit in’ will absolutely prevent you from being YOU. In reality, I can’t see how this over the shoulder glancing could ever work out well. Oh and one final word of warning, all the Jones I know are in a constant state of flux so, just when you think you’re finally slotting in, someone somewhere will change their view and BANG! you’ll find yourself flung back out in the cold.

This column first appeared in The Lady where I am their Mum About Town.

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6 London bloggers take to TARTAN

I’ve spent the last decade lusting after a business trip. Put simply: the NO homework, NO school run and the total thrill of travelling alone. But the only work trips I’ve squeezed myself out of the house and onto a plane for, have quite honestly disappointed; a curious mix of long boardroom meetings, lonely hotel rooms and some demanding clients. So I came to the conclusion that business trips quite simply weren’t for me.

the Union Bridge was built 1920 and is the longest iron suspension bridge in the world

the Union Bridge was built 1920 and is the longest iron suspension bridge in the world

But – a few weeks ago – while chatting to a particularly lovely Scottish retailer, a glimpse of ‘the great escape’ appeared like a vision in front of my eyes. “I’d love to meet some of those London bloggers you keep mentioning’ she told me, ‘do you think they’d be interested in travelling North to learn more about tartan?’ she enquired.

the most delicious lunch at The Collingwood Arms Hotel – all cooked with the best of locally sourced produce

So, there we were, last Monday morning, a brilliantly rowdy bunch on the fast train to Berwick Upon Tweed, which is only 20 minutes from where ScotlandShop is based.

Jemima who writes Musings of a London Mum

Jemima who writes Musings from a London Mum

ScotlandShop sells tailored tartan clothing and interiors, with literally about 500 tartan to choose from. I can’t imagine there’s anyone out there who knows more about the multi-coloured chequered designs than Anna White.

Joanne from The Stylist and the Wardrobe discussing tartans and patterns with Anna of Scotland Shop

Joanne from The Stylist and the Wardrobe discussing tartans and patterns with Anna of ScotlandShop

I was (mostly) posing as the client’s photographer. Juggling lenses and delighting in the brilliantly sunny Scottish climes, I thought you might like to see the trip as more of a picture story.

What an amazing view as you step outside the Scotland Shop offices

What an amazing view as you step outside the ScotlandShop offices…

 

inside it's ALL colour

… and inside it’s ALL colour

 

we were invited to mock up mood board detailing anything we'd love to have made. In tartan, of course. Jemima had already set her heart on a maxi skirt.

we were invited to mock up mood board detailing anything we’d love to have made. In tartan, of course. Jemima had already set her heart on a maxi skirt.

 

This is Chirnside Hall Hotel - a really gorgeous country house hotel where we had lots of wine and dinner before resting our pretty heads.

This is Chirnside Hall Hotel – a really gorgeous country house hotel where we had lots of wine and dinner before resting our pretty heads.

 

Over LARGE glasses of wine - in our country house hotel - we learnt how to make a kilt. Here is Anna from South Molten Street Style getting whizzy with her needle...

Pre-dinner and over LARGE glasses of wine we learnt how to make a kilt. Here is Anna from South Molten St Style getting whizzy with her needle…

 

dinner time

dinner time

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instagramming as we went

 

Such a lovely client. She mostly listened to us gossiping, debating and in fits of giggles without passing judgement!

Such a lovely client. She listened to us gossiping, debating and laughing very loudly without passing any judgement!

 

I work up to find Poppy Loves was already up and dressed and mesmerised by the view...

I woke up to find my friend Poppy Loves already up and dressed and completely mesmerised by the view…

 

we headed to Selkirk Mill to learn how tartan fabrics are made

after breakfast, we headed to Selkirk Mill to learn how tartan fabrics are made

 

which was basically a photographer's dream

which was basically a photographer’s dream

 

and also VERY noisy

and also VERY noisy

 

After the mill, we were in for a last surprise treat before our train. Anna drove us onto the Mertoun Estate on the Tweed bank...

After the mill, we were in for a last surprise treat before our train. Anna drove us to the Mertoun Estate and as we walked down to the Tweed bank…

 

... where a Scottish picnic had been laid out waiting for us. A DREAM...

… we found a Scottish picnic had been laid out waiting for us. A DREAM…

 

after too much Irn-Bru, there was no stopping Ropes of Holland jumping in the Duke's boat...

of course after too much Irn-Bru, there was no stopping Ropes of Holland jumping in the Duke’s boat…

A last minute dash for the London train and Ropes of Holland, Poppy Loves, South Molten Street Style, Musings from a London Mum, The Stylist and the Wardrobe and I were heading homeward bound.  Now ALL tartan converts and more than a bit smitten by the stunning Scottish scenery, I’ll refrain from posting another 20+ pics or repeating just what a brilliant giggle we all had.  Besides, I’m sure they will tell their own side of our story and to some extent, what goes on tour, stays on tour…

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a massive thank you to everyone at ScotlandShop!

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